Nov. 6, 2025

Part 2: You Only Live Twice: A Memoir in Two Genders | with Author Jay DeFazio

In this continuation of their heartfelt conversation, Ben Walters sits down once again with Jay DeFazio, author of You Only Live Twice: A Memoir in Two Genders.

 

A moving follow-up to Part 1, this conversation invites listeners to reflect on what it truly means to live authentically, no matter how many lives you have led.

 

Get the book:

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⁠https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FXZZ1156/⁠⁠

 

More from Jay and his memoir:

⁠https://youonlylivetwice-memoir.com⁠

https://www.insideout-transart.org⁠   

 

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Chapters:

00:00 – Picking up Jay’s story: the next chapter of living twice

02:00 – The emotional reality of transition

04:10 – Family, faith, and finding your place

07:05 – What courage looks like in everyday life

10:20 – Healing, humor, and humanity

13:15 – Identity, belonging, and being seen

16:00 – Lessons from You Only Live Twice

18:45 – Living authentically, again and again

21:10 – Closing reflections: carrying your story forward

 

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