Part 3: You Only Live Twice: A Memoir in Two Genders | with Author Jay DeFazio
If you’ve ever wrestled with belief, identity, or forgiveness, this one’s for you.
In this powerful conclusion to Ben’s 3-part conversation with author Jay DeFazio, they dive deep into the spiritual side of Jay’s journey — from religious devotion and self-denial to freedom, compassion, and healing. Jay shares how writing You Only Live Twice: A Memoir in Two Genders helped him reconcile his past, reconnect with family, and rediscover his faith in a new way.
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Chapters:
00:00 – Courage, truth, and transformation
02:00 – When faith becomes fear
5:00 – Breaking patterns and facing the “I Am Broken” chapter
07:00 – Internalized shame and self-acceptance
09:15 – Finding empathy through conversation
12:00 – The “bathroom debate” and shifting public perception
14:00 – Rediscovering manhood and social rules
18:00 – Bias, belonging, and learning new ways to connect
19:00 – Healing, forgiveness, and family reconciliation
23:00 – Parenting, coming out, and protecting the ones you love
27:00 – Loving and being loved without understanding
30:00 – A granddaughter’s simple acceptance
32:00 – Living authentically and letting kindness lead
33:30 – Faith by its fruits: peace, compassion, and purpose
34:30 – Closing reflections
Disclaimer:
The information in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and should not be considered medical, mental health, financial, legal, or professional advice. Guest opinions are their own. Always consult with a qualified professional before making medical, health, business, investment, legal, or personal decisions.
